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Balancing Motherhood and Career Here At #open #MothersDay
I always knew motherhood was something I wanted for myself. My entire life before kids, I found ways to engage with children: snuggling my best friend’s brand new baby brother, babysitting jobs, teaching preschool dance classes, working in an afterschool program through college; the role of nurturer fit and I really […]
How to Navigate The Ups and Downs of New Relationship Energy in Ethical Non-Monogamy
Don’t get swept up in the high of new romance! Let’s talk about new relationship energy in ethical non-monogamy.
How To Introduce Your Pre-Existing Partner(s) to a New Dating Partner (as a Polyamorous Person)
Be open to hearing from either of them that they aren’t ready, and to hold space for conversations around their potential doubts, fears, and insecurities.
7 Astonishing Ways That Conflict Helps You Grow In Non-Monogamy
Honoring when a relationship dynamic needs to change is a huge opportunity for growth which ensures that our relationships are aligned with what is best for our own personal wellbeing, as well as those in our polycule.
5 Polyamory Mistakes You Don’t Need To Make
In learning from others’ experiences, you can avoid common pitfalls and make some polyamory mistakes of your very own.
Maybe The Death Of The Nuclear Family Is Good For Us
How the non-nuclear family can support everyone to live their best lives.
9 New Year’s Resolutions for Ethical Non-Monogamy, Sexploration, & Dating in 2023
Some advice for improving your non-monogamous experience in the year to come and beyond.
10 Ways to Resource Yourself and Others Post Anti-LGBTQIA+ Acts of Violence
All members of the LGBTQIA+ community deserve to feel safe, supported and resourced.
21 Most Popular Sexual Orientations In The #open App And How They Are Defined
Exploring all of the sexual orientations listed by our non-monogamous dating app users.
Here’s How Emotional Abuse Can Look Different In Non-Monogamy
If they’re telling you you shouldn’t be feeling something because it’s irrational or it’s unevolved, that is a big warning sign for emotional abuse in polyamory.
7 Important Reasons Why #open Doesn’t Do Background Checks
All you need to know about new background checking tools on dating apps and why #open doesn’t use them.
Background Checks Strengthen Our Most Racist Institutions –– Why Are We Putting Them In Dating Apps?
Implementing background checks on dating apps is yet another way we discriminate against people with criminal records, many of whom are innocent.
Is Being A Player So Wrong? What Game Theory Teaches Us About Dating
Here’s what game theory can teach us about loving the player, and changing the game.
Here’s The Secret To Feeling Secure In Non-Monogamy
The ways attachment styles apply to non-monogamy has been really unclear. Author Jessica Fern adds some clarity.
What The &#*@ Is Ethical Non-Monogamy?
Demystifying ethical non-monogamy, all its beautiful sub-categories, and the reasons why people practice it.
We Spent 3 Fun Days At A Hotel Takeover For Swingers –– Here’s What It Was Like!
As official sponsors of the event, #open came to connect meaningfully with other members of the swinging community.
Why Should Dating App Users Pay For Safety Features That Don’t Actually Work?
While companies profit off of women’s very real fears of assault, little is being done to actually reduce violence against women.
Here’s Why Background Checks On Dating Apps Promote A False Sense Of Safety
While background checks on dating apps seem like a way to protect users, experts claim they will negatively impact privacy and security.
17 Sex Positive Educators To Follow This Black History Month
In honor of Black History Month in the United States, we’ve put together a list of our favorite Black non-monogamy educators, sex educators, and kink educators!
Joycelyn Elders Is The Black Woman Who Inspired Masturbation May
You may be surprised to find out that May is National Masturbation Month! If you’re curious how this self pleasure month came (pun intended) into existance, read on to learn more.
Your Fave Polyamorous Dating App Celebrates One Year Of Open Relationship & Sexuality Education!
The polyamorous and #open community didn’t just need a polyamorous dating app, they wanted a community, they wanted a place to learn and share.
Ask Amy Schooled This Mom Who Wanted Her Son To Stop Being Polyamorous
We’re constantly scanning the news for polyamorous content, and we hope you are too. And while polyamory is slowly gaining acceptance and traction in mainstream media, the reality of the situation is that there is still a lot of negative commentary (or no commentary at all) around the subject.
10 Signs of Healthy Sexual Self Esteem
Sexual self-esteem is feeling capable of being involved in sexual practices with successful procedures and results. Sexual self-esteem tends to differ with age and one’s partner’s sexual skills or interest, and it may vary for men and women and across cultures.
Here’s 7+ Unconventional Sex Toys We Love
The moral of this story — there is absolutely a sex toy (or two…) out there that’s perfect for you! All it takes is a computer, some free time, and a little bit of inspiration to find.
We Got Attacked By A Bat! How My First Full Swap Swinging Experience Got Spooky
When my first-ever full swap experience turned a bit frightful, I knew I had to save this odd story for October.
These Are The Best Clubs For Swingers, According To #open Users
During our recent SWINGING 101 workshop, a number of our #open community members asked for a list of swing club recommendations — so we’ve created one!
Looking For Sober Date Ideas? My Partner And I Took A Yoga Class With Goats
When yoga came up as a possible date activity, and I was tasked with setting it up, I went for the quirkiest option I could find, and that happened to be goat yoga at Bradley Mountain Farm.
Here’s What Swinging Is Actually Like #FactVsFiction
Swinging is a sexual practice in which singles or people in committed, ethically non-monogamous relationships engage in sexual activities with other couples and singles as a form of recreation and socialization.
How Calming Your Mind Can Help You Enjoy Anal Play More
Deep abdominal breathing relaxes the muscles, especially those in the pelvic floor. Using breath during anal play is an excellent way to help yourself relax and experience pleasure.
We Chatted With 4 Real #open Users About Dating And Non-Monogamy
The team at #open is constantly blown away by the array of diverse humans that are swiping, connecting, and dating in-app. We want to share more about our vibrant community, so we’re continuing our Faces of #open campaign.
Dating IRL During the Summer Of COVID-19
Boldly asking potential dates what their recent exposure looks like, if they’ve been wearing masks, and whether they’ve taken appropriate distancing considerations when in public has become my new standard.
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We want to create a better community, and so we’re taking this time to turn our attention to the ways that we all must work together to create a racially & socially just world.
This User Planned A Sexy Virtual Date Night To Serenade Their Partner #isoDating
We love the creativity that planning this date involved.
Sex Toys 101: What To Know Before You Buy
There are literally hundreds of thousands of sex toys on the market and every year we see more inventive and new ways to get to that big O!
10 Reasons Why Sex-Positive Moms are Badass AF
Congrats, you’re now a M.I.L.F. You’re not afraid to join the ranks of Stifler and Stacy’s mom’s.
My Long Distance Bae And I Made Pervy Paintings Virtually #isoDating
There’s something extra flirty and fun about setting up your date night with a little bit of planning and kink involved.
11 Sex Positive Shops To Support During Social Distancing
Here’s how our friends are helping customers and visitors stay connected even during social distancing!
How Non-Monogamous People Are Online Dating In The Pandemic
I decided to go all in on virtual dating and it’s been sexier and more intriguing than I expected.
What You Need To Know About Dating And Covid
We hope this list inspires you to bridge the gap if there’s more than 6 feet between you and your partner(s) or match(es).
How To Celebrate Valentine’s Day When You’re Non-Monogamous
Those of us who are engaging in consensual non-monogamy are in a unique position to challenge all of our assumptions about love and relationships.